When I first moved back to Texas and was visiting a park with my 2 year old twins I noticed a moms group having a playdate. I was considering joining a club at the time and was observing with the intention of approaching them for more information. But one thing I noticed was the lack of multiples. Yes many of them had two children but one was younger and safely cradled in a carrier or secured in a stroller.
The mom was free to guide and chase her toddler around the slides and pry wood chips out of his hands.
The moms with only one child were busy posing their baby for pictures. Full attention was given to that child. Both hands were offered as they came down the slide. One mom even sipped a hot latte!
They were all free to chat with little distractions. It was then that I realized that a regular moms club wouldn't...